10 years. Wow. How has that happened? Has it really been 10 years since I started this blog????? 10 years ago today I turned to the blogging world. Just shy of 1800 blog posts later and I am still here!!!! Wow,life has changed something fierce since I started this blog.
So here is a ten year in review and some lessons learned along the way blog. I struggled with taking pictures of myself along the way.....a regret of mine. (pictures are SO important on this journey)
I started this blog as a heavily overweight woman. Here is a picture or two from that time....or rather, these pictures were taken December 2005....the closest pictures of myself I could find to the 10 year anniversary of this blog. I was probably right around 260 pounds at this time....and had already lost roughly 50 pounds.
Not easy to see........
But I had a mission. I was going to lose the weight. I sadly, was losing the weight for the wrong reasons.....NEVER lose weight to try to make someone love you the way you want to be loved. They need to love you for you and not the number on the scale or the size of your body. It took me quite a few years to figure that lesson out.
Right or wrong, I started working diligently on this weight thing!!!! I walked. I rode my bike. I became a collector of exercise videos and I actually used them....EVERY DAY! I watched everything I ate.....and guess what? It worked! I can see my face had started thinning out in this picture.
By mid 2007 my weight was lower than ever and I was feeling fantastic!!!! I wasn't done I kept moving! I kept working it! And the weight just kept dropping!!!
By 2008 I had reached my goal weight (as prescribed by my doctor). Oh my word. I can't even describe how fabulous I felt. I was on top of the world. I had never felt that well physically as an adult. My arthritis in my knees all but disappeared. I felt confident. I just can't describe how life was...I just felt GREAT! (Size 10 shorts in the picture below..my lowest size)
I even managed to make it to be a lifetime member at Weight watchers!!!!!! GO me!!!!!!!
I still had some weight to lose. I was still about 15 pounds over where the BMI charts told me that I needed to be in order to be healthy. I pushed..and pushed. Family and friends started to worry about me and told me that my face looked gaunt and started asking if I was sick. I knew I wasn't. I never saw myself as a thin person. So I pushed forward. But I can NOW see how my face was SOOOOO thin!
It was shortly after this picture that I realized that losing the weight in an effort to make my husband love me the way I needed to be loved was NOT working. My marriage was still on the rocks, and nothing I was doing was working (I had tried everything...not just a massive weight loss!). I stopped caring about my weight....after all the purpose for losing weight had crumbled and proved to be ineffective. Ok, I still wanted to be thin, but I didn't want to bother with watching everything. I didn't want to worry about the work it would take to complete my mission. I started to slip.
In 2009 I had done something I said I would NEVER do.....allow my weight to creep back above 200 pounds.
By the way...I don't like the weird mouth thing going on...but my hair was AWESOME in this picture!!! In 2009 I met a blog buddy for the first and we rode Girls with Gears!!! What a fabulous experience and what a fabulous friend!! I was about 210 pounds.
Donna and I had so much fun doing the Girls with Gears Bike ride that we decided to do Pedal to Preserve the same year. You can see that I gained weight between these two rides...two short months. My hair was still awesome though!!!
I vowed over and over to stop the weight gain. But I'm ashamed to say that it kept creeping up and up.
I took steps to try to eliminate the weight. I just struggled. I rode in Pedal to Preserve the following year, 2010 (I have no pictures of me doing it) I had gained even more.
I never gained everything back as evidenced in this 2011 or 2012 picture. But I had done some serious weight gain!
My salvation during this time was that I never stopped exercising. I still rode my bike. I had started going to zumba religiously. I was still moving and being active. I was just gaining. Weight is lost in the kitchen....NOT the gym and I was/am living proof!
In 2013 I decided to start losing weight for ME. I didn't care what anyone else thought. This was a mission for ME. My weight started to drop again. I was well on my way. Things were looking GRAND for me and my weight loss. I was featured in a newspaper article talking about my weight loss. I had this in the bag I was on my way back to my goal weight!!!!!
Yup.....a picture from the article. Not the grandest picture...but it was out there for the world to see.
I'd like to say that I got that focus back. But I didn't. Once again I kept moving. I was running. I was going to zumba. I was riding my bikes. I was walking. But the weight was not coming off.
5K's and even a few 10K's and the weight just wasn't dropping......
Then my life changed drastically. My marriage ended....and I finally admitted to the world what I had known for years! Life was upside down and I still couldn't get a grip on it...but I kept moving!!!! I kept pushing....but gained again.
It took quite a bit of time....but in October of 2015 it clicked and I am back on track.
I've been on some vacations and done some day trips since I got back on track. And I have still managed to lose weight! I have walked a fair amount site seeing (my tracker showed me on a good many of my vacation days walking well over 5 miles each day...with some being as high as 10 miles) and have been doing some more walking and hiking with a friend outdoors. (and some spraining of the ankle sorry "J".... I know that freaked you out!!!!!!!)
Honestly, this post was difficult to write. Emotional. It was awesome to see the confidence on my face as a thin woman. It was torture to watch the weight creep back on and to relive that failure. It was emotional to relieve the emotions of the last 10 years. I wasn't happy for most of the 10 years....just masking the pain and sadness with a false smile. But I can see when I was taking steps for ME that the smile actually radiated from my eyes and my soul. Hmmm.....another lesson learned!!!!!!
All of these lessons over the last 10 years have shaped me into the woman I am today and have directed me to be the woman that I want to be.
It's time to look to the future. The future is out there.....and I can write the book any way I want!
I want to write it as a thin woman.
I want to write it as a happy woman.
I want to write it as an ACTIVE woman.
I will write is as a content woman!!
This is MY story, I am in control!
This is MY story, I am in control!